Monday, December 1, 2014

The marshmallow study

My wife and I had a discussion while driving around looking at early Christmas lights yesterday.  I think it’s the same discussion we have every year.  We generally start in one of the more expensive neighborhoods, and then wander into other areas we know have lights.  The houses in the neighborhood start at about $500,000 and go up from there.  You can get a lot of house for $500,000 in my area. 

The discussion centered on the question “should I be ashamed to want a $500,000 house?”  The answer should be an emphatic no.  As long as you haven’t cheated anyone to get the money, you can buy whatever you want.  But the thought still persists.  I think it’s because of several underlying problems.

First, people preach the wrong form of Christianity.  They preach a form where Christians should never have any fun, enjoy life, and should be just barely surviving because they give everything they have away.   It’s hard to discuss how off and wrong this is, but it’s something that perseveres.  If you listen to the Bible, and really believe it, then you should really dig into the effects of sin versus a sinless life.  Jesus led a sinless life, so would have all the benefits of a sinless life.  The Old Testament has a lot of those.  Basic end result is this: Jesus wasn’t broke.  He was rich.  If Jesus really lived a sinless life, and you really believe the Bible is true, then Jesus was rich. 

The thought that Jesus was rich changes a lot of the dynamic of Christianity.  I could go farther on that one, but Larry Hutton does a better job at that discussion.

The 2nd part of the discussion is what was taught in public schools.  Tying into that is how the media presents wealth.  I’ll start with public schools.  I was a child of the 1980s.  Even when things were booming at their best, there was no love lost of capitalism.  I would say it was boarder line socialism.  But the problem was it is a bunch of socialists trying to teach kids how to thrive in a capitalist society.  It just doesn’t work.  Schools never teach about honest businessmen and women sacrificing hours of their day to grow a business.  It’s always about the giant, evil corporation that is out to destroy the world.  The discussion of finance and money is always bad.  It’s always about how evil and greedy the rich are. 

On the path to becoming rich, I think rich people are quite possibly the most misunderstood group of humans in the world.  Quite possibly because they all think in a very distinct way.  And that distinct way is generally the same.  It narrows to down to live below your means, work hard, and then work some more, and sacrifice what doesn’t matter to get what does. 

But that is a message that is universally ignored, and never taught.   There was a marshmallow study of small children.  The child was given a marshmallow, and told if the marshmallow was still in the room when the person came back in 5 minutes, the child would get two marshmallows.  Those children that successfully waited 5 minutes and received their 2nd marshmallow were statistically significantly better off than everyone else that took the marshmallow. 


So why do we always teach children to take the marshmallow?

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